Consider this prayer by Kristen Hemingway & Latasha Morrison from Be the Bridge, by Latasha Morrison:

“Lord, we understand that we are in need of as much grace as we need to give. We know that we have to do our personal work to bring healing and wholeness to our lives so we can engage in the work of reconciliation with our brothers and sisters.”

Christ, help me to have the vision and capacity for work that needs to be done in my own heart so that I can be part of your call to reconciliation with my brothers and sisters.