Consider this prayer, “Prayers for Those Who Are Angry that the Church Has Changed,” from Pastor Megan Rohrer’s book “Prayers from the Caribbean:”

May your discomfort be tolerable.
May your welcome of others be stronger.
May your God,
be allowed to be the God
of your neighbor too.

How would your life be different if you considered that everyone is at God’s table? They might be at different sides of the long table, but still at God’s table.